The Pleasures of the Prostate
How to Stimulate the P-Spot
by Kristina Garcia

One of our favorite things to do is to help men and their partners discover the pleasures of the prostate gland (or the P-Spot). Aptly called "the male G-Spot" because of its ability to produce earth-shattering orgasms, the prostate is helping men of all ages and orientations take sexual satisfaction to new depths.

A New Approach
Go ahead and give yourself a pat on the back for exploring the "P-Spot" (shorthand for the prostate). Stimulating the P-Spot involves anal play, so some folks are reluctant to try it because of cultural attitudes that paint it as "taboo" behavior.  But if there's one thing we know as pleasure advocates, it's that all kinds of people enjoy all kinds of sex. Anal sex involves some of the most pleasurable sexual sensations that men and women, gay or straight, can experience. Everyone has an asshole, but men's assholes are extra-special because of the presence of the prostate gland!

Toys For Boys
An abundance of anal sex toys await you to help you discover the kind of P-Spot stimulation you like best. When shopping for a potential P-Spot toy, keep in mind that many G-Spot toys also make good prostate toys, and that a curve toward the tip is the key feature to look for.

• If you like pressure on your prostate, check out the Archer Wand. Made of hard lucite, this wand has translucent good looks and a magnificent curve; it's easy to grasp and just right for slipping along the anal canal. Just press on the handle to control the amount of pressure you receive.


• The Aneros Plug is Babeland's most popular P-Spot toy and is designed to stimulate the prostate both internally via the plug, and externally via pressure on the perineum. It stays put all by itself and provides excellent prostate massage. Because of its ability to prolong erection and stave off ejaculation, the Aneros is a must-have for men who are learning to become multi-orgasmic.


• For vibrating fun, try the Protouch Plug. Made of easy-to-clean, heat-retaining silicone, this jack-of-all-trades toy comes with a removable vibrator.


• For couples interested in "pegging" (one partner wears a harness and dildo and anally penetrates the other), check out the Bend Over Beginner Kit, along with our own How to Bend Over Your Boyfriend tips. She'll look and feel great wearing the velvety harness, the small wireless vibrator, and one of the two silicone dildos. 

1. Go it Alone. We recommend that you fly solo for your initial prostate probe, so you are in total control of the pace and depth of your explorations.


2. Relax and clean up. A warm shower with some added soapy attention to your butthole is a great way to relax and get into your body. It can also help lessen any apprehensions you may have about encountering feces, as will the use of a glove.


3. Add lubricant. Once you’re ready, a nice thick lubricant like Maximus or BabeLube and smooth fingernails are musts for successful prostate stimulation. Since the anus does not self-lubricate, you’ll want to use generous amounts of lube.


4. Easy does it. With lube on your fingertip and your anus, press gently on your anus with the pad of your finger as you push out (as if you were going to the bathroom). Your sphincter muscles will relax, and your finger should pop in.


5. Explore. Once inside, curve your finger toward your belly button, and feel for a textured, ridged area about two to three inches inside. Some folks liken the feel of the prostate to that of the surface of a walnut.


6. Experiment. Prostates enjoy a variety of sensations from firm pressure to rhythmic movement to vibrations, so try some different movements until you find your favorite.


7. Add toys. Butt plugs and smooth dildos feel great on the prostate and can be easier to maneuver than your hand, so check out these toys on the Babeland site or read on for more specific suggestions.


8. Add partners. Once you know what you like, it'll be that much easier to show your lover how to please you!

Also Recommended

• Ringing Your Backdoor Buzzer: Prostate Toy Shopping Guide
• Babeland's Collection of Men's Sex Toys
  

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