Forced Fantasies

One of our featured gallery stories sparked the most heated debate about forced fantasies. The story was an explicit description of a rape fantasy. Some felt that the story fell within the prohibited range of what is deemed acceptable, in that it contains scenes of anal rape. Others felt that it was a good portrayal of a masturbatory fantasy. We are interested in what you have to say about forced fantasies.  —Lybbe

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From Shorty
When I was in Japan, I went to their video store and brought some videos of Japanese women being raped. It was just some movies and were not actually being raped. I really got off on seeing these young Asian women getting banged and swallowing cum. From the amount of rape videos in the bookstore, it appears to me that this fantasy of rape is liked a lot in Japan. Real rape is unforgivable and should be met with very harsh punishment. I pity no one who rapes a person in real life. No one.

From Lilith
Rape fantasies do it for me. I know that technically being raped by some ugly stranger with AIDS would so not be cool. But to fantasize about a hot and totally clean rapist forcing me is different.

I personally would love to be able to have my significant other force me. But that's the snag, do you really want to be forced when you don't want to be forced? And can you be forced if you want to be forced.

I personally have to many rules for my lover at the moment to allow him the ability to tie me up and do whatever he wanted. In fact, he would end up with a list of what not to do that would in effect be a list of what to do. So, as hot as the rape fantasy is, it is not always possible or safe to take part in the real life version.

From Celtic Kajira
I find forced fantasies very erotic, for the simple reason that they are archetypal. A wise man once said that men were not put on Earth to beg for women's favors. This is the "might is right" maxim. Of course in the real world, Western women have obtained equal human rights mandated by law and rape is illegal. However, women have a right to claim their rape fantasies and increase their pleasure in participating in forced sex fantasies.

Thank you for this awesome forum. I am so pleased to have found you!

From Anonymous
Forced Fantasies...interesting topic choice and interesting subject to discuss. I have experienced a forced fantasy...albeit not the way most want.

You see, a close guy friend and I have discussed the issue of rape and being used by others before because both of us have been raped. He and I were having fun with the master/slave scenario and I'm not the totally submissive type to begin with when it started towards the "we might want to stop" being asked by me. But that was at the point when I couldn't speak if I wanted to (bound and gagged makes it hard to speak except in moans, whimpers, and screams.) So to make the story short, he took me when I wanted him to stop...but I still got off.

Being tied up and gagged made it all the more harder to say "maybe we should stop". It's not for everyone though...this was a once in a lifetime thing that happened and we are wary of doing that again though we both enjoyed it, we've sort of left in the "extremely special treat" section of our discussions that will only come out when we both feel up to it again.

From Sindy
My lover and I acted out a forced scenario and it was totally awesome. We had teased and talked about it but had never really given it any serious consideration until one night we were talking on the phone and our imaginations got the best of us. The conversation ended with the teasing statement that he might show up and take me by force. Not really sure that he was serious I left him a way to gain entry to the house and went to bed. I woke to the sensation that someone was standing over me. As my eyes focused in the dark his face swam into view before me. Before I could react he pushed me onto my stomach, pushed my face into the pillow, positioned himself above me and took me then and there. Even now weeks later I can relive the sensations, the sound of his voice, the level of his excitement and the intensity of his climax. It was the most erotic experience of my life and left me wanting to experience it again and again.

Having said all of this, the one huge difference between our fantasy and reality is that I knew who was in my bed. I knew he truly would not hurt me. I was never afraid or terrified. There was never any violence. In our fantasies we control what is going on even if we act them out with a partner.

Rape victims have that control stripped from them in the most terrifying way. Rape creates terror, pain, both physical and emotional, violates your sense of safety and so much more that I am sure I cannot even begin to understand.

From Joe Abernathy
Here's a twist on all these discussions. I had an off-on sexual relationship with a feminist friend for several years. The topic of rape was a serious hot button for her. The very subject angered her.

As we got explored our physical relationship together she would talk about rape dreams she had. Her voice would shake, her face would flush as she described them. She would writhe and I would touch her. She was always wet and her clit swollen.

The twist was that she it wasn't so much the rape fantasy that had her excited. Her dreams, her stories would always finish with her killing the rapist. She would shoot off or cut off his cock and balls and watch him die in shock and pain and humiliation. It was while telling those endings to her dreams or stories that she'd come.

She'd let me fuck her after she came. Sometimes she'd come again with my cock in her. She'd grab my balls and twist them a little while I fucked her. I knew where her head was and it was all scary and hot at the same time.

From Kasual
I love my rape fantasies, unfortunately my significant other doesn't feel the same way. He feels it is difficult to rape someone who wants it. But I think it would be hot. To be forced to get whatever your given, especially when it is not the time.. oh yes. I live the idea.

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