The Inside Story

How does penetration feel?

I've read a lot of erotic fiction that describe the sensation of having your penis inside a woman as you climax, but what is the reality? In the quest to better understanding the opposite sex, I have to ask: Guys, what does it feel like to orgasm inside a woman? How does it feel, physically and psychologically, when you're inside a woman and she climaxes?

I also want to hear from women about the flip side of this.  How would you actually describe the sensations of being penetrated, copulating, and having a man come inside you?  Inquiring minds want to know.  —Helen

The last time I was in a woman I was visiting the Statue of Liberty.  —Woody Allen

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From Bushman
Wow -- love the descriptions the other guys have posted.  I agree with many of them.  And, the ladies' posts are very interesting, too.  Coming inside of a woman is probably one of the best, hottest, and sexually fulfilling feelings a guy can experience.  I feel as if I am sharing a part of me with her (which is true).  The feeling in my penis is of sweet, hot bliss as I squirt a load of cum into my girl.  My entire body feels tingly and energized as this is happening -- especially if my girl has her hands in all the right places as I am coming.  I suppose I could make a more detailed posting in the "Describe Your Orgasm" section on the other page, so watch for a posting from me over there soon...

Physically, when my girl comes, the sensations that my penis feels don't vary too much -- except that I may feel a change in how slippery her pussy gets, as well as the possibility of feeling her muscles twitch around my cock after she comes.  If I have not come yet, seeing her come may put me over the edge immediately.

Psychologically, when she comes, it makes me feel good in the fact that she is enjoying herself and that I have provided a means for her to utilize my body for her to give herself one or more great orgasms.  This is especially satisfying to me if she does, in fact, come more than once.  Hope this helps, Helen!

From Oh, Man!
The moments leading up to penetration seem to make the actual penetration that much more thrilling.  Slowly teasing her with my cock head makes her level of desire increase to the point that she is begging me for me to put it inside her.  My anticipation of what its going to feel like can make it difficult to be patient while I am doing the teasing.  But, I always try to keep in mind that when a woman invites a man into her body, it is the ultimate form of acceptance on the woman's part.  It is up to the man to proceed at a pace that is comfortable to the woman.  Doing this makes it better for both partners.

Of course, when I finally slide my cock into her, I do it very slowly to make sure I do not cause any discomfort -- just in case her natural lube is not evenly distributed.  Once all the way in, my girl softly moans "Ohhhhh!" as I drive as deep as I can into a now very moist pussy.  This makes me sigh "wheeeooow" as I have to get used to the very nice sensation of the very warm, wet, alive, inviting place that I have entered.

It is now a matter of either one of us -- or a combination of both of us -- to move in a manner that is enjoyable to both of us.

Sometimes I come first, sometimes she comes first -- rarely at the exact time -- and that is OK.  When she comes first, I can feel her muscles rhythmically throb around my shaft -- especially if I lie still for a few moments.  That feels great to me -- almost as if her pussy is trying to squeeze the cum from my cock.  Then, when it is my turn to come, depending on the position we are in, I find just the right spot and angle to position my cock relative to her g-spot, clit, or both, as the situation warrants, when I shoot spurt after spurt of my cum into her pussy.  Since I am holding still, we both can feel my cock pulse as I am coming, and she can feel (depending on the position I am in), my cum jetting against her clit or g-spot.  This feels incredible to her -- better than if I was all the way inside of her when I came.  If she has already come, this could bring on orgasm #2 for her very quickly.  If she hadn't come yet, this could bring on an earth-shattering first orgasm of the evening for her.

There are other times when we choose to have me penetrate deeply when I come in her pussy.  This feels very powerful to me and gives her a feeling of satisfaction that she made my body do what it did.  It is nice to stay in her pussy and gently stroke in and out--feeling the even more slippery and wet sensation of the load of cum I just shot into her.  This can sometimes bring on orgasm #2 or #3 for her.

"De-penetrating" is a let-down of sorts.  I either pull out when either one of us is ready, or just let my self go limp and have it almost pop out on its own.

That, folks, is my view on penetration!  :)

From Dan
Being inside a woman becomes almost a spiritual experience for me.  She has invited me to penetrate her!  Wow!! The sensations I receive as I begin to push inside her?  Warmth, wetness, constriction, all centering on my penis - a guy's most responsive part. The warmth is welcoming, the wetness is exciting, the constriction stimulates my penis.  Add to that her velvety soft body under mine and, well, I'm certainly in a "don't bother me" mood!

Sensations when she's coming?  More constriction - all the better - some women "flutter" inside as waves of constrictions roll through them - very nice!  I wanna hold you so tight and plunge so deep into you when that is happening!

Sensations when I'm coming inside her? Heat - actually quite hot - at the tip of my penis, the contraction of my balls, the spurting sensations and the overwhelming feeling of continuing a long long line of sexual "correctness" leading all the way back into the mists of pre history - the penetrated female receiving the male's ejaculations in order to continue the race. A marvelous feeling of connection with the world!

From Mark
I'm always surprised by the warmth of a woman as I enter her. It is like no other warmth I have felt. It is made all the better as she inhales sharply the first time she is filled.

From Angie
I'm surprised that no other women seem to feel as I do on the subject: I hate penetration. Both physically and psychologically. Physically, I guess it's not sooo bad... kind of like being filled. But psychologically, even the thought of being penetrated or entered makes me shudder. I like my physical being to be inviolate.

In my day-to-day life, as well as in bed, I feel that I'm the physical embodiment of power, and the last thing that interests me is compromising that power by allowing some guy to deposit his seed in me. I suppose that makes me a top....

From Greg
Unless it is a 'quickie' first thing in the morning before leaving for work, then penetrating my wife will follow some intense foreplay, perhaps lasting twenty minutes during which I will work her clit into an enlarged sensitive state, my pre-cum and her cunt juices will both be flowing.  But even so her vagina will be contracted and narrow.  As a result the pressure on the penis head (I'm circumcized) produces an amazing, breathtaking sensation for me and a second later a gasp from my wife as my girth pushes open her tight vaginal wall. From then on we are both lost in a growing ecstasy the basis of which is the erotic warmth generated by the action of the penis and the enclosure provided by the vagina.  For me the final sensation is my climax and for my wife feeling the warmth of my cum, 'red hot' she says when first shot into her. 

Anal penetration is very satisfying for both of us but it is all about the tight, unlubricated anal opening and the fat, hard penis, and the short anal canal and the penis's length all combining to create a totally different form of pressure-based excitement.  My wife says that unlike the vagina receiving cum she feels no sensation in her anus when I climax, nor feeling my cum's heat.

From Bobby
Sliding my penis into my wife's pussy is AMAZING! Being inside her is nothing I've ever felt in my life! The feeling of being deep inside my wife's pussy is a high I can't describe. When I finally let go and give my wife a pussy full of sperm, the high gets even higher! I'm very happy knowing that MY sperm is deep inside my sexy wife! She's happy too! It feels so good that I never want to come out of my wife's pussy

From Heidi
How it feels? Amazing! He spreads open my legs... as he climbs over me and penetrates me. I feel his huge cock forcing my tight pussy to open and the head of his cock penetrate deeper. His penis head stretching the walls of my pussy deeper and deeper, taking my breath away. He tells me steady and he penetrates. I am not very big, so it takes me a moment to ease as he goes deeper in me. I feel every inch of his cock fill me. I tighten my pussy muscles as he drives it hard, filling me with his cock. Gushing with excitement, I milk him.

From Eddie
To me it's the best feeling a man can experience especially when the woman is wet. It's like putting a silk glove on your hand. And when you build to a climax it's so intense that when you release and she tightens around your penis it's pure heaven.

From Anonymous
While I've never come from penetration or intercourse alone, it is one of my favorite aspects of sex. I derive enormous pleasure from the initial penetration, especially. if there is some teasing, some head/lips play, then some slipping in just of the head and out again. Really gets me eager to have it all inside me! I end up thrusting towards him, aching, begging for it.

The feeling of being filled up and taken, yes. Love it!

And as many men have said about giving a woman pleasure, I really get off on giving HIM pleasure, of knowing how good it feels to him as he moves inside me, hearing him moan and sigh and feeling him thrust and throb.

As far as how his orgasm feels inside from my point of view, I was in a relationship for over 20 yrs and when we were younger, I could definitely feel his contractions and feel the semen shoot....WOW! His cock swelled hugely just before he came, and I could feel burst after burst deep inside me as he came, and it gave me an incredible thrill..not an orgasm, but as close as I come without clitoral stimulation. BLISS!

Over time, this didn't happen as frequently, since he didn't get as hard or shoot as much as he did at 20 or 25 when he was 40 or 45. And I was probably not quite as tight after 2 kids as I was as a 19 yr. old virgin. Still great, but I did miss those sensations.

As far as how MY orgasm felt to him when inside, as I said, I have never come from intercourse alone, so he was hardly ever inside me as I did. But a few times, we managed it with clit stimulation during penetration, and it almost  drove him crazy. Closest we ever came to a simultaneous orgasm. I can imagine, as I contract pretty strongly and repeatedly.

I have limited experience, having been with only one man (albeit for over 2 decades) and since having been widowed 6 months ago, not yet been with another, but for whatever it's worth.

From Evelyn George
I've been sharing myself in an exclusive relationship with the same woman for over thirty-five years, and have always been excited to share her orgasm, whether I'm in her or not.  Watching her flush, feeling her contractions, enjoying her wetness, and just knowing that I played a role in getting her there gets me off.  The most potent sex organ is between the ears - the one between the legs only helps it along.

From Arabella
Penetration...oh wow, it feels amazing.  It's been way too long for me, and I'm reminded of this now as I'm typing!  It feels as though I am being filled up (which, of course, I am!).  I need to be really aroused, though, otherwise it can be painful.  If I am really close to the guy, sometimes I want to pull him deeper and deeper inside me.  I can never feel him climaxing inside me—of course, I can tell when he climaxes by the motions, the sounds, the sweaty back, etc.  But I never  feel those "hot juices" inside me like all those romance writers talk about.

From Andy
Climaxing inside of a woman feels like you're pouring your body and soul into her.

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