Swallow or Spit?

What's a person to do...

Semen is not something I would lie back and think 'mmmm, the taste'. Indeed I have found it not nice at all, yet men insist it's creamy and yummy—mostly because they haven't tried the drinkie drinkie test themselves.

I prefer to spit rather than swallow but I have had one partner get highly offended that I spat. So I swallowed, hated it and resented him.

Still a dilemma tho. I guess that it's like soymilk—an acquired taste. Swallow or spit; you either like it or hate it. Personally I prefer soymilk. —Giulia Cosentino 

A man might forget where he parks or where he lives, but he never forgets oral sex no matter how bad it is. —Lenny Clarke

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From Anonymous
When my girlfriend and I have sex, right before I'm about to come I pull out and put my dick in her mouth and she sucks it all down until I'm completely dry and limp.  She'd rather that than me blowing my cum all over her chest

From RJ
From a male point of view, I have always come to believe that if a woman goes down on a guy and brings him to the point of no return, she has now placed herself into the stage of whether I do or do not fulfill my commitment to swallow. During the oral suck aspect, she has to ask herself, Do I or Don't I? To please him fully, I should. I personally prefer her too, however from a guy's point, I tell other men, if you think it is a no brainer for a woman to swallow, try ejaculating into a glass and without hesitation, without second guessing, bottoms up the glass into your mouth and swallow. If you flinch or hesitate; don't chastise her for not swallowing, it may not be as easy for her either.

Just because she wants to suck your cock, does not obligate her to swallow. As a cardinal rule of thumb, I NEVER insist that she swallows, it is a choice she must make. Yet in my own experiences, I have found that if you do not make it an issue either before or during oral lovemaking, she tends to be more comfortable and relaxed and therefore she tends to swallow, which to me is the highlight of bringing two people ever so closer together. Oral sex; either way is to me far more intimate and personal than intercourse.

From James
If you are sucking a guy's cock, I think it is rude not to swallow.  I love the taste of cum!  Before I swallow I like to show a guy his load before I gulp it down.

From Joey S
I can't imagine not swallowing.  I am a gay guy who loves to suck cock, and I've sucked quite a few in my time.  The greatest thrill is that moment when you feel his cock suddenly swell up and hot fluid begins spurting into your mouth.  Suck and swallow is my mantra, over and over again until he finally goes limp in my mouth, or until he's ready to come again.

From John
I can't believe a woman would actually continue to date a guy who is so inconsiderate that he'd let her suffer through cramps and discomfort when swallowing his sperm. No offense, Miriam, but I think you should dump this guy, or at least stop enabling him to take such advantage of your willingness to please regardless of the consequences. [see Miriam's entry below]

There's any number of things he can do; wear a condom, warn her when he's about to come, pull out of her mouth before he comes, and so on. I can't imagine why a man would let a person suffer like that, unless all he likes about that person is his/her blowjobs.

And, I can't help but wonder why a person would be so desperate to please that they'd ignore their body's warning rather then discuss ways to enjoy oral sex and not swallow.

I mean it's not like oral sex isn't the most wonderful thing, only if swallowing occurs. It's damn good with or without swallowing. Talk to your man, work out alternatives.

From Miriam
Yes, I began my current relationship about a year ago, after a year or so of no sex.  The first time I gave my new man a blow job it was an amazing experience, reminded me of how much I had enjoyed fellating all my previous boyfriends, and husband before them. But after I had blown my new man, I got the most violent stomach pains, bent over with it.  His cum must have been particularly rich in something we couldn't figure, or it was toxic!  He was very considerate and dug out an old hot water bottle and put me to bed for an hour or so. 

I told myself I had to get used to his cum so went down on him later that evening but this time it wasn't on an empty tummy and the cramps lasted just a few minutes.  Today we have a '69' two or three times a week and just enjoy him comming in my mouth, swallowing it all but each time there is still a tingle in my tummy, but no real pain.

From T
My personal philosophy: If you put it in your mouth, you better be damn sure it's disease free—especially if you swallow.

From S
My personal philosophy: If you can put it in your mouth, you can swallow what comes out of it.

From Jack
My wife always asks me to rub some precum or a drop or two on her clit then go down on her and lick her clit. Also sometimes after we make love she comments on how sexy we smell after we come together and the juices mingle.

I was so turned on by the way mine and her juices coat the inside of my mouth, I decided to find out how a load of sperm tastes from another man. Bottom line is swallowing a load of cum from a man or eating my wife after I shoot a load in her turns me on the same way. I love the way it coats my throat as it goes down.

I noticed if my wife smokes a lot I can taste the nicotine on her skin, or if i suck a man off I can taste the medication he may be taking or if he has eaten some vegetable that is sour. As I said I love the texture coating my throat so I always swallow my wife or any guy I give a bj to. Finally, if it's my wife or another man we always exchange our fluids with a deep probing kiss

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