Designa Vagina

lips to die for...?

Watched a programme whilst on nights about women who have plastic surgery on their large labia: "labiaplasty" (nipping women's genital lips), "vaginal rejuvenation" (tightening the vaginal muscles) and "vaginal reconstruction" (tightening, shaping, sculpting). Now I can understand this being done for comfort/post baby tightenings, but some of these women were having it done for completely cosmetic reasons.

Do they have a fashion parade of pre and post? Open crotch jeans to show off whilst shopping? Question: guys, do you have a preference for size and shape of labia? Would you leap out of bed if they didn't suit you? Tell us please, it's interesting I think. Ladies, would you contemplate this surgery at all? Me?....<shudder> No.  —JoJo

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From Sarah
Reading these posts just released so much emotion that I had been building up for years. I'm glad to hear that I'm not alone, but it is still an insecurity that I can not move past. Many men considered me to be an attractive female, but I can't help thinking what they would think about me if they saw my labia. It does not bother me as much that it is big, but that the lips are very different in size and length. Although I can read that so many men appreciate a vagina, no matter what it looks like, I still can't help but think that I will turn a guy off. Every time I sleep with someone, I do not let them look down there. It's tearing me apart because it is hard to fully enjoy myself sexually if I can't completely relax.

I thought about surgery so many times, but I am a college student and I don't know where I would find the money to get it done. I've never told anyone how I've felt before and it hurts so much that i can't help by cry now. I want to share my feelings with my mom, but I don't even know how to bring it up.

From Richard
When it comes to pussy, I have seen, tasted, touched and smelled enough of them to know what I like.  My favorite is the kind that is attached to a woman who feels confident about herself and the way she looks.  There is nothing sexier than a woman who knows what she wants but is adventurous enough to explore new ways of getting it.  I have never been attracted to someone who didn't have these characteristics no matter what her body looked like.

After my divorce, I dated a woman who epitomized the ideal of what is beautiful and sexy in our culture.  She was a blue-eyed blonde with big tits, long legs and a tight ass.  And for the context of this topic, she had a pussy most porn stars would envy:  shaved, tight, and virtually lipless.

However, when our clothes came off, this gorgeous woman had to have the lights out.  We always had to do it in a bed.  Oral sex was completely off limits.  And once the sex was over, she immediately got up and put her clothes back on.  When I asked her about it, she said, "I don't want you looking at me."  When I broke it off with her, my friends thought I was nuts to dump someone as hot as she was.  I didn't have the heart to tell them why.

My current girlfriend is, without a doubt, the hottest woman I have ever known.  And while she is very attractive with a beautiful smile and naturally blond hair, her body type is not what society considers ideal.  Her pussy lips are large and slightly out of symmetry but open like the petals of a morning flower.  They are also very responsive to my touch and swell as she becomes aroused.  They are the same color as her full lips and taste just as sweet.  I would gladly spend every waking moment between her legs exploring the beauty of her.  We have an amazing sex life with a perfect blend of comfort, intimacy, and adventure.

As someone who does not possess the perfect body type, I understand not always feeling completely comfortable about my body.   I don't look like a porn star either but that doesn't stop me from acting like one! 

We've all had partners that have said hurtful things to us about our bodies or what we liked doing with them.  Its an unfortunate thing to happen when were most vulnerable and difficult to get over.  Its your body and yours to feel good or bad about.  You get to decide, not someone else.  And believe me, no matter tight lipped or full bodied, you can always find a partner that will believe yours is perfect in every way.

From Lore A
Rose! Dont think of reducing your sweet clit. The sensitive is something as disappear with time. At least did mine do so.

We are all different but the sexual enjoyment is really something to love and to take care of. Be proud! Love your clit! Big or small! I am born oversized.I wouldn't like to have a smaller.

From Molly
I am the only woman I have seen in the flesh with lips - both sets, mind you - as big as mine. When I was a child, I would pull on the inner lips for the pleasure of it, then alternately pull on the outer ones. Maybe that caused it , maybe not... water under the bridge. I've been really self-conscious about it in the past, but with little reason. I'm fairly sure the only reason most porn doesn't have women with big lips is because, well, most women don't have em!

I remember back when my now husband I had been together for only about a week, and we were house-sitting for my sister. He pulled out their pestle, and began to fondle my bare genitals with it, then he said, very earnestly, "you have my favorite pussy ever", and when I jokingly said "of course I do!", he just looked at me with big eyes and said "no. seriously. ever."

Of course, at this time, I did not know that most of the porn my husband had looked at was, for lack of better language, pussy-oriented. I later became familiar with his tastes in porn, and the man loves pussy. Especially shots from behind, where the lips really open up. I only now know what a compliment it was that after years of looking at all those pathetic, dinky porn-star pussy lips, he preferred my big, soft ones.

So despair not, ladies! In fact, you've been blessed with your big lips. Men like big everything - big boobs (which I do not have), big butts, and yep, big pussy - it's just more to love.

From Mister Truth
I am a guy. There is NO bigger sexual turn-on in the entire world to me as much as women with Big Pussy Lips! As in long, thick, meaty and dangling labia minora. I often wonder what is beneath the clothing and/or jeans of women in general, that I walk around in a day. 

I absolutely LOVE Big Pussy Lips on women, that is the number one physical-sexual turn-on to me. Women with huge, long and meaty pussy lips represent the highest lot of femininity. The longer and thicker the labia minora and clit hood labial structure, the more feminine and erotic she is. I say this based on physiological fact as well as observation and experience. Women with very well-endowed labia, tend to be laid-back and fun women too. I can see why, since their very selves are at a high level of sensuality, pleasure and continuity of female-ness. I don't know why any woman who has a large labia would feel insecure of anything. Since most women who don't have big labia would be jealous of them, and most men if they caught a peek at their treasure would have a hard time walking normally and have issues with drool. 

Anyways, I absolutely LOVE women with large labia!

From Anonymous
Well, I have a large clit, and when I wear underwear you can see it a little. It (at least to me) is embarrassing. I'm very young and a virgin but am afraid to have sex because it's so large, about an inch. Well correction, I have a large clit hood that covers my clit. That's what sticks out and also have large labia. I think this might have something to do with being pre-mature.

From WP
My wife was put on the usual HRT but it left her without much response. So the doc put her on a pill that includes a bit of testosterone. One the the feared side effects was listed as 'irreversible clitoral enlargement'. Indeed, her clit grew to the size of a garbanzo and ever since, she has orgasms that top out the open-ended Richter scale. The main difference is that I can get my tongue underneath, and when that happens, it's all over for her.

From Filmprofessional
Women should feel good about larger labia as men are very visual and we prefer larger lips. I have asked many men and they are agree that larger labia are MUCH more appealing on a woman then small labia. I personally think women should celebrate their body and find more stimulation in having larger lips due to the higher sensitivity. Larger lips excite guys more since we can actually see them.

From Charlie
Well I am decidedly on the fence with this one. I have an average sized clit, but quite big outer lips. That's ok with me, but one side is MUCH bigger than the other and has been stretched since I hit puberty as it gets in the way. I once measured it out of curiosity (yeah, I was bored) and when stretched out it is 1.5 inches longer than the other one! It is very uncomfortable and sore at times (especially during my period) and I would happily cut it off myself if I knew I wouldn't bleed to death or something.

It is nothing to do with appearance as I have had nothing but praise from guys/girls I've been with, but if I could afford to get surgery then I would just to stop the constant soreness. I would still keep my lips big though as that is how I was made and I don't want to change that.

From Anonymous
For many years I have not paid any attention to my womanly parts but within this year I have noticed women more, so that I have way larger lips. I am in my 30's and more of an open person about my body and I have never been scared of showing it off but when I came across many pictures of these "perfect pussies" I became a bit shy about my body.

I am married and want to be comfortable in my skin with my husband, really it wasn't until now reading the posts, did I realise I am not alone. Hearing from woman who have personally enjoyed their bodies, and men who enjoy women who have larger lips made me realise that surgery would not be for me.

Three posts really stuck out for me, Pete's, Amanda's and Don's , [entries on page 5] which I know follow each others but they really gave me confidence as a woman. Pete is so right about everything he said and I thank him for his post. So much in his post that I just couldn't argue with and made me glad to be me.

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