Do Passionate Kisses Ignite Your Libido?

When you kiss someone (I'm covering the whole spectrum here: women kissing men and visa versa, men kissing men, women kissing women), really passionately kissing someone, what do you think about? Does your mind hone in on thoughts of 'I hope my breath is ok' or wander to 'my knees are gettin' weak'?

What about after you've been with someone for a while? Do the kisses, I'm talkin' the really good ones, stop? Is kissing just part of that 'I'm tryin' to impress' stage of a relationship? I'm just curious about your thoughts on this passionate subject. —Megan

I've kissed so many women I can do it with my eyes closed.    —Henry Youngman

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From cl
There is something about the closeness experienced with kissing that drives me wild.  It's like I want to take the man inside me.  When his tongue thrusts in my mouth, it's like his cock is thrusting its way through my swollen lips and filling up my vagina.  When the kissing is combined with touching my hair and face and neck, OMG, there is nothing like this to set me off.  I can feel myself getting wet and I want to rip off my clothes and sit on his lap and force him to fuck me.

From Anonymous
Where are all you guys and girls who want some passionate kissing?  I too am married and now starved for kissing as my husband no longer wants to take the time or energy for something that drives me absolutely wild!

We need to have a signal to others that says "are you up for some kissing?"  Any ideas? Maybe we could start something here, sort of like the Larry Craig bathroom routine.  ;)

From Nervicula
I love kissing and the passion of it can sometimes overcome stinky breath, etc.  My man started a thing where he covers your whole mouth with his mouth while french kissing you.  It can leave you gasping for breath and oxygen.  It can feel very sexy.

From Bex
Yes, kissing is a big, big turn on! But how did I come to be kissing a very dishy guy and not my husband? I couldn't control myself and, of course, the guy began to feel my pussy. I had to bring it all to a stop. Frustrated I went to find hubby and tell him the time was right for us to swing! So, we did! Nothing too heavy, a few parties a month, but enough for passionate kissing with another guy to lead to some guilt free fun!

From Anonymous
I love kissing. So intimate and such a huge turn-on! 

My long-time partner used to be an incredible kisser...we would kiss for hours, literally, when we were dating, to the point my lips were swollen the next day. I love it! So did he!

Until recently, we kissed regularly, not as much, but still, when we did, wonderful...such passion and love goes into a good kiss.

Now, he doesn't care for it. He "pecks", little dry kisses, and get's annoyed when I try to initiate more. No, I don't have bad breath and I don't try to ram my tongue down his throat. I enjoy some tongue contact, but mainly just lips and a little tongue. Mainly the tenderness and time that goes into it. Apparently too much to ask.

We still have great sex (if it can really be considered great sex minus the kissing, which I am not so sure about). He told me a while back, when I tried to draw him into a "real" kiss and he pulled away, "I just don't enjoy french kissing like I used to." HELLO! There's something in between "french kissing/all-out dueling tongues" and a dry, perfunctory peck. Not according to him, I guess. Not anymore.

I miss it. Very much. It makes me feel unloved and sad. Makes me long for someone who will kiss me again.

Sure, he'll go down on me for as long as I desire, kiss me elsewhere, but it's not the same without that slow, sensuous, "I love you and want you so much" mouth kissing.

I don't know if it is some subconscious, passive-aggressive thing, that he doesn't love me as he used to or what.

I'm glad to hear there are those in long-term relationships who still enjoy kissing. Don't lose it, It matters.

From Anonymous
My boyfriend and I have an interesting kissing relationship. I'll hold his arms down by the wrists and climb on top of him, lying on him. Then I'll nudge his head on its side and kiss all around his ear, down his neck, everywhere I can in that particular sensitive area. His reaction when I hold him down is different than when he's free to move around, and I think it's because he's submitting control to someone he trusts and is enjoying the free-spirited feeling. 

I enjoy this activity even more than I do playing with his down-under area, because he goes wilder during the ear-kissing than he does anywhere else. He gets almost violently aroused when I kiss his ear and neck while pinning me down; he's actually wrestled himself out of it and done the same to me, whether I will or not (of course, I always will). 

We both love teasing and wrestling; it's like a competition between us to force pleasure onto the other person, and whoever can force the other into submission long enough to get aroused wins.

From Bec
Yes. All the time. Even a lingering kiss with no real intended passion will. My partner jokes that we never kiss without having sex, and it's because we enjoy the kisses so much.

From Bill
I love kissing, before, during and after intimacy. I am 79, my wife 76. We have been married for 10 years, together for 13. I was widowed at 65, she divorced at 69. There were profound reasons why we could not marry until we did but to go into them could cause some problems. My wife displayed no aversion to kissing during our courting, although she did mention that a dentist with a moustache frightened her badly as a child. I have worn a moustache for 51 years. I offered to shave it off but she insisted I not do so and it remains as it always was.

After we became engaged (about six months after we met and four months after we became intimate) I noticed that she seemed to dislike open mouth kissing, something that we had done since a month after we met. She initiated the intimacy...myself being so in love with her that I felt any aggressive petting or attempts at sex would end her feelings for me.

She was, and remains to this day, a lady with a powerful libido. We are intimate at least three times a week and her orgasms are lengthy and, occasionally, multiple. Any attempt on my part to actually kiss her, closed mouth, instantly cause her to turn her face so that I end up nuzzling her cheek or neck. When I raise the issue she gives no reason other than "I don't care to kiss at all." Yet, I awaken her every morning after I have made and pour the coffee by gently kissing her cheek or forehead. She loves that and hugs me with passion.

I do miss the kissing but the sex is outstanding and in every way she makes me feel like a superior lover, which I know I am not, so I accept it for what it is. An unsolvable issue that could spoil the wonderful emotional and physical relationship that we do have should I attempt to change her.

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