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From Oh, man!
As a guy, from what I can tell, it seems that the term "orgasm" is, at times, being used interchangeably with the term "ejaculation", by some folks out there.  The two events are really two distinct things from a purely physiological standpoint -- but ones that typically occur at roughly the same time during sex.

An ejaculation is just that--where semen squirts from our penises.  It feels good, for sure, and can vary greatly from guy to guy in how it looks and feels to the ladies while its happening.  Guys, (ladies, listen in, too, in case you were curious about this), if you've never had a wet dream, it is a very calm event.  It is an ejaculation while you are asleep, or just on the verge of consciousness.  There is no clenching or tingling of extremities, no heavy breathing, no change in heart rate, or any other thing that can occur during an orgasm.  In fact, a wet dream is kind of nice in the fact that, even though you may be half awake, you can feel the sweetness of your penis throbbing as semen shoots through it.  That is the only thing you feel while it is happening.

By comparison, the feeling of an ejaculation that occurs during a typical "full-body" orgasm, as I like to call it, seems to "blend in" with all of the other physical manifestations (as I mentioned above) that take over my body during an orgasm.  It is just a key part of the total male orgasm experience.

In summary, to me at least, an "orgasm" is both a mind and body experience -- as I would imagine it is with the ladies.  An "ejaculation" is a very pleasant body-only experience -- not to diminish the importance of the act of ejaculating, which I think is a very important part of male sexuality -- perhaps more important in some situations than how the male orgasm feels to us.

From Gina
My first was amazing. I was masturbating and I just felt a slight tingle down there. That tingle turned into tiny waves of pure pleasure. Those tiny waves soon turned into bigger waves. Those bigger waves soon turned into a Tsunami of pleasure. My muscles tightened, my hearted faster, and my mind was racing. I was seriously about to scream! Oh what a magical night. I still have my own little techniques.

From J.J.
From somewhere way, far away I felt a strange chill. Then it grew and grew, until finally it was an overwhelming wave that washed up from my vagina, across my breasts, leaving them flushed and swollen, and entering my mind, taking over everything.  I felt like I was screaming as I moaned at the orgasm.  I held my breath, quickly exhaled, then drew it in and held it as the next wave came over me just like the first one.  My body went rigid.  I spread my legs as wide as I could make them, sucking in all of his attentions. 

His tongue was magical.  I grabbed a handful of his hair and pulled his face into my pussy.  Don't you leave me now, was my only thought.  I was stiff and without breath for an eternity.  Finally I loosened my body and began to gulp air in huge gasps, accompanied by a sound that was part scream and part moan.

From Jen
I accidently "stumbled" upon this obscure, but exciting site. I was fascinated with reading the guys' descriptions and unexpectedly aroused by the female responses - so much that I cupped my breasts (an erotic zone for me) and instinctively rubbed the side of my clit - in 2 minutes I came to an intense orgasm.

From what I read, the description of intense contractions - basically in the crotch seems to match many of the descriptions the men made - except I enjoyed about a dozen equally pleasurable contractions - as apposed to 3-5 which a guy feels.  Then, I applied my electric tooth brush to the same area, and enjoyed another 5 orgasms - each longer and more intense feeling than the one I had with my finger.  I soon after relaxed and realized how fortunate women are when it comes to orgasms, as ours last way longer, are more pleasurable by far, and many of us can have many orgasms - unlike my ex who grunts and shoots 3 shots of cum and collapses - no comparison!  In fact, after typing this.. I ready to come again!

From z.a.c.
Orgasms to me feel like my whole vagina's experiencing an extreme earth quake. Mine usually goes on for minutes. If I'm alone, I usually have to stop before my body. When it's happening I have to hold my self still and I really can't think too well.

From Stacie
Sometimes when I'm having sex or masturbating (using a vibrator, water faucet, or my fingers), my orgasms feel good. But other times it feels like getting hit by a train. It gets so intense that my whole crotch hurts.

From Nervicula
The best orgasms I've ever had were self- induced.  I've had two lovers:  the first wham-bam, the second presently ill-equipped.  I was married when I had my first orgasm quite by accident when masturbating alone.  There is a heat that seems to build up from your very core that gets hotter as you continue to masturbate.  Once it physically gets to my head, I burst like a volcano in shaking high on the Richter scale.  And, although I am multi-orgasmic, I stop with the first one and am satisfied.

From Cindy
I've only had an orgasm once. I'm certain I've been close a few times with a partner, but the one I know for sure was of my own ministrations. I was a teenager and curious. I thought if you had sex, you orgasmed. Well I had a vibrator and I tried and tried. Only when I relaxed and gave up "trying" so hard did it come to me. It started feeling like pressure building up, my clitoris became very sensitive to the touch. I stayed on it and massaged it with the vibrator - it felt like I had to pee and when I least expected it I orgasmed and let out a stream of fluid. I had tremors afterwards. Even though I haven't since, it still doesn't intrude on my enjoying sex.

From Sheila
In my late teens I had a strange orgasm where it felt like I peed all over the bed. I was embarrassed, and thankful that it only happened once. Only now, in my early 30's, have I come to the realization that I am able to achieve a g-spot orgasm that produces LOTS of female ejaculation.

Just yesterday, I was shaving my pubic area, and the combination of the shaving cream and my hands rubbing every sensitive part of me made me extremely excited. I rinsed, grabbed my small bullet vibrator and lay down for a clit orgasm. I continued to rub my hands over my smooth pussy, waiting...drawing out the sensitivity...the longing. I am so wet with excitement, that my vibrator just slipped right in. Pushing it further with my fingers, I found that spot deep inside me that sends jolts of electricity through my body when pressure is applied.

This spot has been hit and missed over the years, being hard to locate and harder still to stay on. I push a little harder, stimulate my anus, rub a little faster, vibrate a little higher, and...omg...heat just enveloped my entire being and I felt a hot wetness gushing out of me that did not stop until I lessened the pressure.

I have never been able to achieve this state of orgasm on purpose, and have been extremely hot and bothered since. I want to feel that again and again, and never stop...


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