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Ok I've got a few questions for women, and men. Do you prefer cut foreskin or uncut foreskin cocks? Why or why not? Is there any difference in oral sex? Or intercourse? Mothers and fathers, did you have your sons foreskin cut at birth or not? I guess the "proper" term is circumcised...and not sure where that word came from.  —Al

"Circumcision builds character. If you survive getting the end of your dick chopped off, you can survive almost anything." —Dan Savage


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From Anonymous
Coming from a family of uncut males, I would never cut any of my sons.  Proper cleaning from birth and shown at a young age how to take care of the foreskin when bathing you shouldn't have any problems.

From Molly
I had to contribute to this topic, because when I was pregnant with my son, I consulted this page. I needed to find a way to convince my husband that we shouldn't circumcise our son. I never wanted to. Here's why:

1) I prefer uncut. I would NEVER tell Michael this, but my first boyfriend was uncut, and I loved it. Uncut has always looked... well... mutilated, which brings me to-

2) Cutting off the clitoral hood would also  make the vulva easier to clean and would slightly reduce risk of disease and infection, but IT'S GENITAL MUTILATION! Why would everyone want to do something to their sons they would never do to their daughters? It's extraordinarily painful, it removes a lot of sensation, and it looks gross and painful and can lead to crookedness, deformation or stunted growth (my last ex was a "leaner" from a botched circ).

3) Gals like giving hand jobs without lubrication. Boys like getting hand jobs.

4) You can't un-circumcise.

That said, the person attached to the penis is much more important, and cutting your son's isn't as bad as, say, giving them beer instead of breast milk, but I am glad I convinced my husband not to cut, and he is too, surprisingly.

My nephew, 1 years old, had his cut, and the cut has been infected, and tried to grow back. It looks painful and red all of the time, and they have to wash his poop off of it whenever he has a blowout. Julian's intact penis is ridiculously easy to take care of by comparison. For him, I'm sure it will be easy. He's a handsome kid and friends with everyone and his future wife won't care if he's cut or not. We'd like to move to the UK as well, so chances are she'll prefer uncut.

I encourage all parents not to make the cut, leave it up to the kid. It is not a medical or social necessity, and it's easier to care for. And, you know, their girlfriends will be able to give them badass hand jobs in a movie theater sans lube, and who wouldn't want that?

From A.
I've only been with one guy who was uncut, and that was enough for me to swear it off for ever. First off, yes, uncut penises do look larger when they are soft, but that doesn't mean they are any larger when they are hard.

The first time I gave an uncut guy a blow job it was really hard. I thought the foreskin would pull back naturally but it didn't. Even though he was hard there was a LOT of extra skin around the head. It just made the blowjob a lot harder then it had to be because instead of a mouth full of penis (which I LOVE) I got a mouth full of skin.

The sex wasn't that great either. I thought more skin = thicker = better sex. It doesn't. Maybe it was just that one guy, but it was enough for me to never sleep with another uncut guy again.

From Brett
I'm 35 and my foreskin is a part of me. I think its wrong for parents to make the choice, it should be made by the boy when he is old enough to decide. It's HIS foreskin after all.

I love the feeling of peeling it back and seeing such a sensitive purple glans exposed to the air which looks glossy and healthy. My foreskin wrinkles and closes at the end keeping my glans moist and protected.

From A Writer
Recently an American lady friend of mine asked me if I could clarify a word for her. She had read on you site, an English expression  (Bellender). So just to clarify to all.

All men have a bellend, gland on end of penis.

However the (er) added to the end of the word indicates that the penis is circumcised.

This word is not used in a nice way. It is derogatory an insult, used to belittle, to make feel inferior  i.e. You've got a bellender. Meaning your gland is exposed, ugly and deformed youre not a whole man (or boy).

Other English expressions to describe the circumcised penis include. (all intended to insult or downgrade to a lesser or greater degree):

Button mushroom, matchstick dick, leather helmet, wrinkly pinkie, nasty knob, scarecock.

Hope this helps.

Ps love the whole site marvels. well done.

From Happy Liz
Hi everyone back home in US NY. My name is Liz, I'm twenty-one and I've been over in the UK for eleven months now on a work contract be coming home at the end of next month (Love the site by the way). On the topic of circumcision, wow things are totally different here. I made good friends immediately at the office with a group of girls my age.  (people are so friendly here its kind of hard to take in at first.) Of course they took me to an English pub had my first pint of English beer John Smiths smooth fantastic. Anyway talking soon got around to men and sex. Someone made a joke about circumcision and they all laughed.  I mentioned that all or nearly all American guys are cut as babies. You should have seen their faces. If looks could kill  your joking came the response. thats horrible, blood cruel, why. Its cleaner, better for sex, I rather nervously muttered as ten very stern looking faces glared at me. F**k off total bollocks (balls).

Have you ever had a man with a foreskin? I was asked. I kind of grimmest well actually, I've never actually seen one, not in the flesh (no pun intended). Again this time with laughter you're having us on its a joke you must be joking youre not seriously telling us that you have never seen a normal penis. No never I replied honestly. Several drinks had been consumed by that time. Jill who is the most wayward of the lot jumped up right where not having that are we girls, NO came a chorus of girly giggly voices. Jill grabbed my hand come on time for a willy inspection. I looked at the other girls is she for real I asked. They just laughed. We approached a table where a group of guys (who she obviously know) were sitting. Right you lot on your feet toilets now, she commanded and guess what, they all did not one of them backed out.

Thankfully the toilets where clean. Right this poor young lady from America has never seen an uncut knob, so come on knobs out now. I was wetting myself with laughter, it was so surreal, but they did like school boys in an arc in front of me five young men each stood there with their dick out for my inspection. I sort of sobered up as I looked at each dick in turn the first thing I noticed however was the size. The smallest was about five inch the largest I guess six to seven, but don't forget I'm talking here about flaccid size. So the biggest one was larger soft than the biggest cut one I had, was hard. Well go on then peel them giggled Jill.

Sensing there maybe something more going to happen the guys dicks where stiffening up. Jill grasped one and said this is a nice one start here. I was totally amazed. I had always thought that the foreskin would peel its self back as the penis became erect. I took hold and slowly slid back the foreskin, I watched fascinated as the hole opened to reveal the smooth purple gland. No evil smell, no rotting smeg, no spots, blisters, scabs or sore. Not on any of them I peeled all five cocks ( yes I know I acted like a Slut sorry Mom) In fact later I did a lot worse yes with all five and at the same time all night in every orifice. Was it good no, ten hands and  five hard cocks it was flaming well fantastic. Never got sore just orgasm after orgasm after orgasm if heaven is half as good as that night bring it on if not it will have to wait.

I have settled down now with a steady boyfriend uncut of coarse who is coming back home with me. If we have children together and its a boy or boys there is no way any jealous, cut cocked, money grasping (doctor) is going to get there mutilating perverted fingers on my boy's genitals. To any cut guys out there who may read this I feel so sorry for you. You have no idea how much pleasure you have missed out on and to my fellow females how much sexy fun you have missed.

From Lilith
Personally I am not into foreskin. Though I have noted that if you are with a partner with a small penis but still has his foreskin attached sex is better then if it had not been. I enjoy taking a smooth penis into my mouth rather then one hampered by a foreskin. I don't like having to unsheathe it either.

The fact that after sex my mate has to run off to clean his foreskin is tiresome to say the least. I enjoy repeat performances and a warm sweat and moist penis is more enjoyable for the second round then a cold squeaky clean one. I don't mean to demean the whole circumcision thing but women have to deal with a period for a large portion of their life as well as child birth. What is one snip that men don't even remember?

Personally I think all men who complain should stop being a bitch. The penis is not a flower getting ready to bud. So pull off the trappings of the flesh and stand proud shiny smooth ones!

From June
Paul's outburst requires some explanation. [see Paul's entry below]

Circumcision in the UK was popular up to the late 1940s amongst both working and middle classes since it was regarded as a precaution against illness and subsequent expensive medication or hospitalization. Then, in 1947, the National Health Service was introduced in the UK and as a result everyone had access to state-funded medicine. The financial pressures to take certain precautionary measures like male circumcision began to fade. Only 6% of newborn males in the UK are now circumcised, mainly for religious reasons, compared to 60% in the 1940s.

Born in the 1930s my first husband was fully cut, as is my second husband, who was born in the early 1940s. I grew up, as it were, with 'smooth' cocks and have a well-established preference for cut for fellatio and virginal sex (anally, the fully cut penis appears not to offer any 'value-add' for me), and I'm sure my husband and I spark off each other sexually since I view his large uncut exposed head as being something beautiful, in its way, and very erotic and exciting.

I don't, of course, inspect a man's penis to check if he's cut before sex but, perhaps it's my imagination, sucking a smooth one is a wonderful experience, while my virginal wall feels a cut penis more and I'm sure that's why I receive better enjoyment than from an uncut one. When our son was born in 1980 we didn't give it a second thought and had him circumcised and today, single with a number of girl friends, doesn't look as though he has suffered.


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